Gary W. Alexander - Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory

Gary W. Alexander

October 28, 1947 - September 29, 2022

Gary W. Alexander, age 74, of Middletown, DE, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loving family on Thursday, September 29, 2022.

Born in Chester, PA on October 28, 1947, he was the son of the late Jacob and Eileen (Hasson) Alexander. Gary proudly served his country in the United States Army during the Vietnam War. He made his career as a millwright at DuPont for many dedicated years.

Gary was an avid outdoorsman, he enjoyed fishing, boating, and spending time in Massey’s Landing. Active in his community, he was a loyal member of the VFW. Gary loved football and was a huge Eagles fan. Above all, he was a devoted family man and treasured spending time with them.

Gary is survived by his beloved wife, Susan (Marvel) Alexander; Children, Jennifer N. Sadler III (Glenn) of Dillsburg, PA, and Gary W. Alexander (Jamie Moore) of Townsend; 1 sister; and grandchildren, Glenn Sadler IV, Cassidy Sadler, and Payton Alexander.

A visitation for family and friends will be held from at 10:30 am until 11:30 am on Tuesday, October 11, 2022 at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 275 East Main Street, Middletown, DE, where a funeral service will begin at 11:30 am. Interment will follow in Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery, 2465 Chesapeake City Road, Bear, DE.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Gary’s memory to the Helen Graham Cancer Center at Christiana Care Foundation, P.O. Box 1668, Wilmington, DE 19899 or by clicking here


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27 Condolences for Gary W. Alexander

  • Prayers for your family. Remembering you as a friend from DuPont Wilmington Shops. God Bless


  • My Thoughts & Prayers are with you & your Family. Fond memories of working with Grizz’s mentorship at the Wilmington shops , hanging out in the boiler room. God Speed Grizz

  • Sue and family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  • Gary made everyone feel like family. He was a great neighbor and a better friend. Much love to Sue and the family. He will be dearly missed.

  • My deepest condolences to the Alexander family. May your memories give you comfort during this time. Gary and I worked in the finishing area DuPont Edgemoor for a short period of time. Gary shared many stories with us as he shelled and ate peanuts.

  • Sue and family,
    I am so sorry to hear of Gary’s passing. I remember him well when he worked at Siemens. May God bless you in this time of sorrow.
    Take care,
    Nancy DeVito

  • Sue,So sorry to hear of your Husbands Passing, Keeping you & your Family in Prayer.
    Sincere Condolences,
    Althea Cooper

  • Will keep the entire Alexander family in our thoughts and prayers. Gary was an amazing gentleman.

  • Hi Sue,
    I am so sorry to hear about Gary, my sincere condolences for you and the family.
    Please receive a hug. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

  • Hello Sue…my sincere condolences to you and your family. May God comfort and surround you and your family during this time. God Bless and take care…Aretha Jackson-Carter

  • Dear Sue and family,
    I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Gary being such a nice gentleman. My sincere condolences to you at this difficult time.
    Please take care!

  • I never knew Gary, but since my ex-wife passed this September, I now know how painful it is when you lose someone who has had a great influence on your life for several decades. I hope all his remaining family and friends remember all the good he most likely brought into their lives and carry those warm thoughts with them. That’s what I’m doing.

  • My condolences, Sue, to you and your family during this time. Hold on to the wonderful memories you shared.

  • Sue and family, so sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family. It was my pleasure to have met and collaborated with Gary, even though for only a short time.
    With Best Regards, Jim

  • Condolence to the Alexander family! Truly sorry for your loss! Gary was such a wonderful person to work with! He will surely be missed by all who knew and worked with him! God bless and keep his family! RIP Gary!

  • Dear Family,
    My deepest condolences on the passing of Uncle Gary… aka “Stoney”. The memories of Massey’s will last a lifetime.

    With Love, hugs, and prayers,
    Nicole Powell aka Nikki Rybicki

  • Sue and family. My deepest condolences for your family’s loss. Sending thoughts and prayers for you during this difficult time. May the blessings and happy memories you shared through the years comfort you in the days to come.
    Rhonda Vible

  • Sue and family – There are no words, but there is much love surrounding you and your family and in the memories of your loving husband. May all your beautiful memories comfort you during this difficult time.

  • Dear Sue and family,
    Our deepest condolences go out to you. Look to God for strength and have faith that He will bring you the love and comfort that you need at this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Dear Sue & family – May fond memories of Gary bring you comfort during this hard time in your life. He was a devoted husband, father and grandfather and always had a grin that made you wonder what he was up to. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.

  • My sincere condolences to you and your family.

  • Hugs Sue. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

  • To Sue and family, my thoughts and prayers reach out to the entire Alexander family. My heart goes out to you at this difficult time, but we take comfort that you will find courage and love at this time of sorrow. Gary would want it that way. Mike Manes.

  • Sue, my sincere condolences goes out to you and your family. May God comfort you during this time.

  • Sue and family,
    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

  • Susan
    I am so sorry for your loss of Gary. Griz as we used to call him was a very decent guy. We had many good times together working together, fishing out of Masseys etc. I recall when he first met you and you swept him off of his feet.
    I wish you comfort as you adjust to this big loss of someone we all cared about.
    John Fox