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Violet Dorothy “Vi” Neumane

May 13, 1957 - June 4, 2021

Violet Dorothy “Vi” Neumane, age 64, of Smyrna, DE and formerly of Williamstown, NJ, passed away on Friday, June 4, 2021.

Born in Woodbury, NJ on May 13, 1957, she was a daughter of the late Joel and Pauline (Obert) Howell. Vi delighted in spending time with her beloved family.

She is survived by her husband, Thomas E. Neumane, Jr.; son, Thomas E. Neumane III (Donna); daughter, Melanie N. Neumane-Monagle (William); grandchildren, Katelyn Thomulka, William T. Monagle, Miley Monagle and Kayla Monagle; sisters, Pauline Simon (Nelson) and Elizabeth Neumane-Burke (Gregory); nieces and nephews; and grand dogs, Hush, Gus, Harley, Jaxon and Sarah.

Services and interment will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Vi’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.


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25 Condolences for Violet Dorothy “Vi” Neumane

  • I love ❤️ you Mom … to the moon and back and infinity and beyond. You will forever remain in my heart.

  • I love you so much and miss you so much Mom I was the luckiest kid ever

  • so sorry for your loss❤️ Vi was a beautiful and amazing woman. I will truly miss her ❤️

  • SIP Vi you will be missed & forever in our hearts ♥️

  • Melanie and Family,
    Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your beautiful mother. There are no words that we can offer that will ease the pain of your loss. Please know that you are all in our hearts and prayers.
    – Holly and Rudy and Family.

  • I’m so very sorry…. I will always remember you and cherish all the years and memories. You were like a second mom to me. You will be missed tremendously. 🙏💜🙏 RIP VI 😇

  • My heart hurts for my buddy Tommy and his father and sister and the rest of the family. Your mom was the coolest! May she Rest in peace. Condolences to the family from the Nelli’s

  • Beautiful memories she was the BEST sister a Girl could ever ask for you will never be forgotten, I love you forever and of course to the moon and back See you are the other side, until we meet again sis Love you❤️❤️❤️💦

  • Please accept my sincere condolences and prayers. Vi and I are cousins that haven’t seen each other for many years but did communicate on fb. Glad we reconnected . So sorry for her family’s loss. ❤️

  • Violet going to miss talking to u on FaceTime and on Facebook!Love u Cuz !! Rest In Peace Vi! Say hi to the rest of the Family for me!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • My most heartfelt sincere condolences to the Numane family. Your mom was one of the sweetest ladies I’ve ever met. She was so kind, always made me feel like part of her family. You will be forever missed Vi. ❤️

  • We were all just babies when we met….we were all just babies when you all started your families!

    So many years and so much laughing and good times! We’ll all meet up again someday and it will no doubt be a great party.

    Tom and kids…I am so sorry for your loss and I know how special your mom was to you! Keep her close in your heart…

  • Such a beautiful lady inside and out! RIP my friend. Always and forever in my heart. My sincerest condolences to Tom Tommy, Mel and all the family.

  • Tom, Melanie, Tommy, Pauline and families: I was so deeply saddened to hear of Vi’s passing. My condolences to you all at this difficult time. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Vi was an awesome lady love you ❤

  • Are deepest condolences at this difficult time. Vi will always be remembered as a wonderful person. May she rest in peace.

  • See you in heaven, sweetie!😘

  • What a wonderful, beautiful & amazing woman Vi was and I was honored to have known her.
    Mel, sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family

  • Violet was one of the very few genuine beautiful soul my heart breaks for her loss but also for her family! Her being ♡her positively◇ her energy☆ touched n bless everyone she crossed paths with …so many memories from work (Gateway Diner) the many adventurers adelphia or coast line….. mel’s wedding ….. or the time I keep thinking about when she wasn’t able to ride the bike so Tom got a side car. The jokes she had. Over her new ride had u peeing…… Vi always knew when I needed the inbox ▪︎¤•° her words was alway right on point and from the heart ♡♡♡ even if it wasnt what u wanted to hear. Alway Real. Always amazing always going to be loved

  • Love you, slickbabe

  • Our heart go out to you, Tom and Family. May God comfort and hold you at this time.
    We send our love and will be praying for all. Sincerely, Wes and Patti.

  • I am so sorry to hear , I’m sorry I am on Facebook and I saw it , we are sorry for your loss .

  • So Sorry for your loss. I loved Vi like a sister. We all grew up together. She will be missed immencely. Going to miss her funny post on facebook. She made my day with some of the things she would post. She will always be looking down on all of her familly & grand-dogs. She loved you all so much. God is with her and so is the family members that passed. She is not alone. She left you all with a lot of good memories! Praying for all of you. Love Jeanne

  • Love you Aunt Vi. I will miss you. ❤

  • Violet going to miss all the funny stuff u put on FB u always made my day!U made me laugh so much! U will be miss a great deal Vi! Love you Cuz. Always thinking about u!! Say hi to all the Family for me❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️