Betty Jean Gray - Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory

Betty Jean Gray

July 3, 1945 - February 2, 2016

Betty Jean Gray, age 70, of Newark, DE passed away peacefully at home on Tuesday, February 2, 2016 surrounded by loving family.

Born in Elkton, Maryland on July 3, 1945, she was a daughter of the late Doris Wyre.

Betty was an avid tennis player for many years. She also enjoyed gardening and was a member of the mermaids of the Bear, Y. Family was always her priority and her grandchildren were her pride and joy.

Betty is survived by her husband, James T. Gray, of Newark; daughters, Lori Gray and her husband David Trefsger, of Ocean View, Jennifer Carl and her husband Jeremy of Middletown; brothers, Ronald Isaacs and his wife Mary Ann, Rick Wyre and his wife Kim; grandson, Willem Carl; and granddaughter, Cameron Carl.

A memorial service will be held on Monday morning February 8, 2016 at twelve noon, where a visitation will be held from 10:30-noon at the Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes and crematory, 121 W. Park Place, Newark, DE, 19711.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Lymphoma and Leukemia Society at 100 W 10th St #209, Wilmington, DE 19801 or Delaware Hospice 16 Polly Drummond Shopping Center, Newark, DE 19711.


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17 Condolences for Betty Jean Gray

  • Will miss talking and sharing our love of birds Betty….your gentle soul touched many people…me for one.
    There are just some people who will remain with us always!

  • My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Reflecting ting on the beautiful memories of Betty

  • Betty touched anyone who she came into contact with. My prayers are with the family and friends who loved her. She will be missed so much!

  • So very sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. She was such happy loving person.
    Betty’s mother and my mother were cousins. We grew up playing together.
    As adults we drifted apart, but she will always leave fun filled memories with

  • Thoughts and prayers for Betty’s family. May she rest in peace!

  • Jim, we are so sorry that you lost Betty. Betty was so special to so many people and our prayers are for you and the girls. May God Bless.

  • Dear Jen and family,

    Our hearts go out to you and your family during such a difficult time. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.


    John and Camille

  • Jimmy and Family,

    So sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. She was such a genuinely nice and sweet person. Her Mom and my Dad were cousins, so I guess we were cousins too. Good memories of growing up just down the street from Betty, we had a lot of fun. She fought a long and hard battle, and now she can rest. God will take care of her now. Peace and comfort in the coming days for you and your family.

  • Jim….I always recall our more youthful days and the fun we would have mixed with hard work. Betty had a delightful way and informality with humor that would lighten any gathering. Many are sharing in your loss. Stay strong like you dad.
    Buddy Racine

  • Good bye for now to a brave little fighter. God bless you, dear friend. Rest and be at peace.
    With love from another Mermaid…

  • Jim and girls I am very sorry to here about Betty. I know it will leave a big void in your life but I’m sure she left enough good memories to help fill it. I remember her as a very giving and loving person who put her family first. I’m sure she has made all of you strong enough to get through these days of adjusting your
    lives without her. We are praying for all of you.
    Ray and Mary Madron

  • Jim…my thoughts are with you during this most difficult time. I know that you and your wife shared many special moments together and enjoyed life to the fullest. It is my hope that the memory of those times will sustain you during this life passage. Patti & I send our love!❤️

  • Although I knew she was ill, Betty’s sparkling, joyous demeanor made it seem as though she was not ill at all. She was always Betty, the warm & affectionate friend, quick to smile and share her enthusiasm for life, her beautiful eyes twinkling! She will always have a special place in my heart.

  • Dear Jim and family, Betty fought a long and hard battle and never complained about her illness. I’ve know Betty for over 25 yrs through tennis. She was a great person, friend and a wonderful tennis player. I loved the tennis luncheons at your beautiful home, gardens and pool. I’m glad I got to spent time with her and to call her my friend. I will miss her!!!!! Rest in peace to a GREAT person and friend.

  • Dear Jim and Family,
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I will never forget Betty. Had a wonderful time playing tennis with her as well as all of the tennis social functions. She was a fantastic tennis player. We will think of her often. May she finally rest in peace.
    Our sincere sorrow. Mary Jean and Randy Hitchens

  • Jim and Family, we are so sorry to hear of Betty’s passing. Our thoughts are with you.

  • to jimmy, Lori, Jennifer, grandchildren and all who loved Betty, what a wonderful and joyous person she was. She was always so supporting of others even when she was facing her own hurtles. We were friends through high school and would reconnect when our paths would cross. I will miss our phone chats and her beautiful spirit.