David D. “Dave” Poffenberger, IV
May 30, 1957 - November 27, 2025
David D. “Dave” Poffenberger, IV, age 68, of Middletown, DE, passed away on Thursday, November 27, 2025.
Born in Wilmington, DE on May 30, 1957, he was the second child of Deborah (Staats) Poffenberger and the late David D. Poffenberger, III. Dave was raised in Saint Georges, graduated from William Penn High School, and attended the University of Delaware. He was a proud Eagle Scout (Troop 123) and supported the Boy Scouts for many years. Dave worked across many roles as a community volunteer and was a friend to many. He loved his sports, especially the Blue Hens, the Phillies, and the Eagles. But most importantly, he loved his family – including as a loving husband, father, son, brother, and proud new grandfather.
Dave was baptized in the United Methodist Church and maintained membership throughout his life.
Dave was preceded in death by his sister, Diane G. Baker; and father, David D. Poffenberger, III. He is survived by his mother, Deborah Poffenberger; wife, Aileen Poffenberger; children, Sarita Lo (Konrad Posch), and Nathan Lo (Sarah Jacobson); granddaughter, Maeve Lo; siblings, Dwight Poffenberger (Joyce), Dawn Lowe (Jerry), Denise Arterbridge (Roy); brother-in-law, Ed Baker (Dyan); and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins.
A graveside service will begin at 12 pm on Tuesday, December 2, 2025, at St. Georges Cemetery, Kirkwood-St. Georges Rd., St. Georges, DE.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Dave’s name to the Hands of Hope, in care of Bethesda United Methodist Church, 116 East Main Street, Middletown, DE 19709 or online by clicking here.
Michael Pinder
First met Dave playing (both sitting a very long bench) freshman football at William Penn. Each year he always sat behind me during homeroom period. I had a problem remembering parental notes whenever I was absent or late for school. Dave always had one ready for me, got to the point that I just had him do them all. Condolences to the family and friends.
AnnMarie Kinsella
Aileen and family,
So very sorry to hear of Dave’s passing. Our deepest condolences. May God Bless you and lift you up. Sending hugs and prayers for all.
Mary Keller
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of David. He and the family will be in my prayers.
Micki Keller ( Aunt to Roy Arterbridge)
Bill Dukes
Dave had many health issues over the years but he dealt with them courageously but he never complained about them and dealt with them like a true Colonial warrior. With the help of his loving family he had a quality life right to the end.
Shirley Boyer
Truly sorry for your loss. My condolences 🙏 & hugs
Bonnie Foskey
John and I are so sorry for your loss. Prayers for the whole family
Donna Cavender
I was so sad to hear this news. I’ve known David and his family since we were very young. The Poffenberger’s and the Cavender’s have always called each other family and David’s sister Diane was the sister I never had as we grew up and went through school together. I am so sorry and send my condolences to David’s family. Love always, Donna
Margaret Lindsey
So sorry to read of Dave’s passing. He was a wonderful person. My condolences to all.
Frank Messick
I first met Dave at WPHS over 50 years ago. A very nice reserved guy. Many, many years later we reconnected after the 35th class reunion in 2010. A small group of us began to get together to watch football, eat and drink, and reminisce about the old days. Almost always the reminiscing reigned supreme – to heck with watching the game ! That all went on for years till Covid came and we started a group text since we didn’t get together in person. Every Philly sports team and game was dissected for years by the guys – all very knowledgeable. We had some great times with all of that. Several months ago Dave contacted me about handicapped parking at the upcoming UD football game he planned to attend ( he told me he had not been to a game in many years ) and I am a volunteer at the games doing the parking for charity for the Knights of Columbus so I set him up with a prime spot. It was a beautiful day and I am sure he enjoyed it immensely. He was still the nice reserved person I met all those years ago. He will be truly missed.
Michael Hand
Thoughts and prayers to the entire Poffenberger family.
Chris Quinlan
I am so sorry about Dave. I am a dialysis patient and would see him at 5am to talk sports. I was shocked to learn of his passing. My close friend had a baby named Maeve about the same time Dave’s granddaughter was born. May god bless her and may Dave rest in peace.
Nicholaus smeltzer
My most sincere condolences go out to my uncle Dave’s family and friends. Dave was always a welcoming and warm hearted individual I’ve remembered since I was a child. I know I speak for all of the Smeltzers when I say Dave will be missed by us all, and his memories cherished.
LaVinia Love
Aileen, Please know that I’m praying for you and the family during this difficult time. Love and Hugs of Comfort.
LaVinia
Carol (Foraker) Johnson
David and I went thru school together and I remember David and Dwight being in Scouts with my brothers. I believe my Mom was their ‘Den Mother’. Please accept condolences from the Foraker Family.
ray webber
A true and most thoughtful friend. His sincere kindness was refreshing and welcoming. Everybody should have a friend like him that you can count on to be there for you. Much love to all the Poffenberger family.
Peggy Kirk
Debbie: It was great seeing you yesterday at Jack’s service. I think of you often as my classmate at Delaware City High School and the great times we had there and at Merryland Roller Rink. Please accept my sincerest sympathy and prayers for the loss of David. Peggy