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Frank B. Dilley

November 17, 1931 – April 13, 2018

Frank B. Dilley, who served for many years as Chair of the Philosophy Department at University of Delaware, died on Friday the 13th of April 2018. Consummate planner that he was, he drafted the following for his obituary:

Frank would like to be remembered for his good points. 1: his efforts to reform the teaching of philosophy to make it more attractive to women and minority Americans; 2: his teaching directed to making philosophy a part of the lives of students who are not intended to be professional philosophers; and 3. helping to create distance learning opportunities for doctoral degrees for already employed older students (for which he was awarded an honorary doctorate by Walden University). He asks forgiveness from all he offended, including those he intended to offend.

He worked hard, too hard, to do those things while still helping his beloved wife Jane to raise a family of three – Brian (called Maxx), Carol, and Kathryn (called KK), who developed in quite different directions, all of whose accomplishments he admired. He leaves all of them behind along with six grandchildren.

Born in 1931, Frank grew up with two brothers and a sister (all now deceased) in an academic environment where his father Frank B. Dilley, was Director of Admissions at Ohio University in Athens Ohio, and his mother, Geneva Steiner Dilley, was very active in community and University affairs. He earned BA and MA degrees at Ohio University, a Master of Divinity at Union Theological Seminary, and a PhD from Union Theological Seminary and Columbia University. He won many awards which seemed important at the time but seemed to him finally to be not worth listing.

Frank taught at Sarah Lawrence, Smith College, and Milliken University, and came to the University of Delaware as Chair of the Philosophy Department in 1967. During that time, he left the chairship for four years to serve as Associate Provost. at the University of Delaware. He published two books, about forty articles, and miscellaneous reviews and minor pieces.

His last years were lived with his wife, Jane, at Jenner’s Pond, a residential community which provided comfortable accommodation for his rapidly declining body and a communal atmosphere for mental and social engagement.

Frank was a passionate supporter of the performing arts and received great pleasure from perusing the season brochures. He steeped his family in the performing arts and in retirement, he organized his schedule around season tickets for these events.

Among the professional achievements he valued most were: bringing the American Philosophical Association (APA) to be housed at the University of Delaware; being President of the University Faculty Senate twice; being the first faculty member to receive the Excellence in Service Award in 1995; and starting the Jewish Studies Program and the Jewish Studies and the Religion Minors. Under his leadership, the Department grew from a faculty of four to eighteen fulltime and joint faculty, of which 43% were minority or female. At one point, 73% of the student body at the University of Delaware took at least one philosophy course to fulfill their humanities requirement. He was co-founder of the Delaware Humanities Forum (DHF) and was a two -term member of the DHF council. He was an early adopter of media as a teaching tool, creating three philosophy courses on video and producing 70 radio and TV interviews for the DHF.

He also served on multiple accreditation teams charged with assessing foreign Universities seeking to become affiliated with the University of Delaware. This sparked an enduring passion for travel.  He and Jane traveled extensively through Elderhostel /Road Scholar including trips in Europe, Africa, Asia, Australia, Russia, Central America and to see polar bears on Hudson Bay. An exchange year with Hull University in the north of England sparked a lasting relationship with Great Britain.

A memorial service will be held at the Newark United Church of Christ, 300 East Main St. in Newark, DE on Saturday, April 28<supth</sup at 10 AM.  In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to the Newark United Church of Christ (of which he was a founding member), or to a local performing arts organization of your choice.

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  • Julia and I are so sad to hear the news of Frank’s death. We have the fondest memories of him and our time with the two of you. Frank’s wide ranging sympathies, intellectual and cultural, coupled with a gentle, good humoured tolerance always impressed us enormously. And I remember my time in Delaware in your house and within the Department with particular affection. Most importantly of all, our abiding impression of Frank was of what a decent, humane,rational, caring person he was. Jane and the children were everything to him. RIP Frank.

  • Our sincere sympathies to Mrs. Dilley and family on Dr. Dilley’s passing. He was such a kind and gentle soul. He always had a smile on his face and a kind word to offer. We miss seeing you both at the DSO. May his memory forever be a blessing.

  • Jane,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  • Jane,
    I don’t know if you remember me, but we worked together with the League of Women Voters.
    I’m very sorry for your loss. Frank lived a full life, represented by his lovely obituary.

  • Dear Jane,
    You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Frank was an amazing man and will be missed.
    Hugh and Joan Ferguson

  • Dear Jane and Family, I was truly saddened to read about Frank’s passing. I moved to this area 13 years ago and you and Frank were one of the couples I kept running into at concerts all over Wilmington and then when I started to work for OperaDelaware 10 years ago, I finally found out who you were. You both were also so pleasant to me when I’d see you at the door of our Studio and out and about at all the other performing arts venues. Frank will truly be missed and I know the angels in heaven will perform their best for him. With deepest sympathy, Mary Wilcosky

  • Dear Jane,

    My heartfelt sympathy and condolences to you on the passing of Dr. Dilley. So many fond memories of you both at NCCL, NUCC, and the University of Delaware. Always enjoyed running in to either of you at Morris Library. Keeping you in my prayers, Jane.