James Edward “Jim” Kitchen - Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory

James Edward “Jim” Kitchen

March 17, 1931 - February 20, 2024

James Edward “Jim” Kitchen, age 92, of Katy, TX, formerly of Wilmington, DE, passed away Tuesday, February 20, 2024.

Jim was born March 17, 1931, in Wilmington, Delaware to the late James Tees and Mildred (Chadwick) Kitchen. After graduating from P.S. DuPont High School in 1948, Jim proudly served his country as a Sergeant in the Marine Corps during the Korean War.

A lifelong banker, Jim began his career with the Equitable Trust Company, later part of Bank of Delaware, and served in various positions before being promoted to Assistant Vice President in 1971. He was then promoted to Treasurer and Vice President with responsibility for the bank’s branches in New Castle County. Jim retired from Bank of Delaware in 1986. In 1988, he joined Artisan’s Savings Bank and served as Vice President of Operations until his retirement in 1996.

Jim was a graduate of the School for Bank Administration, University of Wisconsin. He was a charter member of the Goldey Beacon Distinguished Alumni Gallery and was a past Distinguished President of the Kiwanis Club of Wilmington. Jim was actively involved in the Bank Administration Institute, United Way, Administrative Management Society and Meals on Wheels. He was a member of the Salvation Army Advisory Board, having served many years as Vice Chairman and Treasurer.

An avid golfer, Jim was a member of the Newark Country Club where he enjoyed playing golf and serving as committee chairman for the McDonald’s LPGA golf tournament. He was also an enthusiastic coin collector.

In addition to his parents, Jim was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 37 years, Joan (Carey) Kitchen. He was also predeceased by his sister, Joanne Hines, as well as his second wife, Marie Hoopes-Kitchen.

Jim is survived by two daughters, Theresa Kitchen Backus (Thomas) of Atlanta, GA and Karen Kitchen Studer of Katy, TX. He was a loving Pop Pop to his grandchildren; Christine Backus (Thomas Kavanagh), Kelly Backus Bradley (Colby), Tyler James Backus (Katherine Donald), and Sarah Studer (Jason Hentz), and found a particular joy in his great-grandchildren; Elizabeth Smith Bradley and James McHenry Bradley. He is also survived by his loving companion, Anne O’Connor, as well as many nieces and nephews.

A visitation for family and friends will be held from 11 am until 12 pm on Friday, April 5, 2024, at Immaculate Heart of Mary R.C. Church, 4701 Weldin Road, Wilmington, DE, where a Memorial Mass will be offered at 12 pm. Inurnment will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations to the Salvation Army of Delaware, P.O. Box 308, Wilmington, DE 19899 or online by clicking here.

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  • Jim has been a dear and close friend for almost 60 years. We both worked at Bank of Delaware and frequently worked together in branch management as well as on special operational and promotional projects. He was an avid golfer and we played many rounds together at Newark Country Club, Myrtle Beach S.C., Pinehurst N.C., Ocean City, Maryland and in Scotland where we played the Old Course at St. Andrews as well as other courses in the area. He was fun to play with, very even tempered and a good golfer. Jim’s hearing was not the best but when someone told him that his putt was good before he had to putt it, he Always heard that :). He was a true friend and would do anything for anybody. A finer man no one has ever met.
    Rest in Peace my friend. You had a great life!

  • So sorry for your loss. I worked with Jim for numerous years at Bank of Delaware.

  • Our family has fond memories of visiting Mr. Kitchen as we knew him. Always had a smile for us and interest in our family’s wellbeing. What an impressive man with all his volunteer contributions to many organizations that have made a difference in quality of life for others. A life well lived and loved!

  • Today we all could celebrate a birthday to a “special guy”. He has been missed the past few years by many and now we have to say goodbye again. Happy Heavenly Birthday Jim. Hugs to all the family at this trying time.