Katherine M. Shea - Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory

Katherine M. Shea

May 15, 1951 - December 26, 2025

Katherine M. Shea, age 74, of Bear, DE, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her loving family on Friday, December 26, 2025.

Born in Wilmington, DE on May 15, 1951, she was a daughter of the late Francis and Loretta (Klosowski) Milerski. Katherine was a graduate of Corpus Cristi High School with the class of 1969. She made her career at Wilmington Trust as a client sales representative for 21 years. Katherine then began working as secretary at the Delaware School for the Deaf where she spent 2 years before going to the University of Delaware, ELI as an administrative assistant for 6 years.

Katherine loved endless trips to the beach and any reason to go shopping. She always looked forward to large family gatherings and parties. Katherine enjoyed helping family and friends prepare their taxes.

Katherine is survived by her loving husband of 51 years, Carey M. Shea; daughters, Stacy L. (Shea) Silva and Lauren M. Shea; grandchildren, Alaina Solazzo, Jacob Silva, Vincenzo Solazzo, and Samantha Silva; sister, Jeanette Filiaggi; six nieces; and countless cousins.

A visitation for family and friends will be held from 1 pm until 2 pm on Sunday, January 4, 2026, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 121 West Park Place, Newark, DE. Services and interment will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Katherine’s memory to Helen F. Graham Cancer Center c/o Christiana Care, P.O. Box 1668, Wilmington, DE 19899 or online by clicking here.

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11 Condolences for Katherine M. Shea

  • Dear Lauren, I sympathize with your loss of your mom, who will always be loved forever in our hearts and prayers with you all the way. Your mom has had a peaceful life without suffering anymore and rests peacefully. ❤️🙏

  • Kathy had such an amazing and kind soul and will forever be missed. She had the most infectious laugh. Whenever your parents were at a gathering, you know it was going to be a good time. I like to believe that she is a beautiful angel who will be watching over everyone she loved. May she rest in eternal peace.

  • I am so very sorry to hear of Kathy‘s passing. We went to high school together, where we endured typing and shorthand classes with Sister Joan. I’ll always remember her beautiful smile. May your memories of her bring you comfort.

  • My deepest condolences to the Shea and Silva families. I know Katherine will be greatly missed!
    Rest in Peace. 💔

  • My dearest Kathy was an angel on earth and now she’s gotten her wings. My deepest condolences to all of you with our love.

  • I am so sad to know of Kathy’s passing. She was a force of life and she touched so many people! I pray the angels carry her quickly to heaven

  • My deepest condolences to Kathy’s family, her husband, daughter and grandchildren.
    May the Lord send you comfort and solace during this difficult time.
    I enjoyed working with her at the ELI for the University of Delaware.
    She touched so many of us with kindness, helpfulness and cheerful spirits.
    She will be missed.

    Rosana Dempsey
    ELI tutor

  • My prayers and condolences to Kathy’s family. I was fortunate enough to work with Kathy at the ELI. We had so much fun together and I learned so much from her. I have such fond memories of Kathy and loved hearing stories about her family.

    Prays for all.

    Lynn Robinson

  • Lauren,

    I am sorry for your loss and I hope all goes well as it can. My thoughts are going to be with you and your family.

  • Katherine was my favorite cousin … we shared a lot of good times with our daughters … I will always remember her beautiful smile and her infectious laugh … loving memories will sustain us … she will be missed, but I know that she will always be watching over us and her spirit will give us comfort … may she rest in peace.

  • Lauren and your family! Sending you my deeply condolences with your loss of your most loved mom. My prayers for your family! May rest in the peace Katherine ! tight hugs!
    Ilze Meija