Kathleen A. “Kathy” Wolinski
May 15, 1966 - March 1, 2024
Kathleen A. “Kathy” Wolinski, age 57, of Newark, DE, was welcomed into Heaven on Friday, March 1st, 2024.
Born in Wilmington, DE on May 15th, 1966, she was the daughter of late Eugene and Betty (Wright) Olenderski. Kathy made her career as an operations manager at Bank of America.
One of Kathy’s most admirable traits was how all in she was on her relationships. Growing up, she was lucky to be alongside her immediate and extended family on the farm, and spend time in Wildwood, NJ at the beach over 4th of July’s. Living amongst them gave her an incredibly close-knit family dynamic. She also had lifelong close friends from elementary and middle school.
During high school, she met her lifelong partner, and they became inseparable. Married in 1986, Kathy and Jim lived their best lives entertaining, going to events with friends, riding roller coasters at adventure parks, and growing their love of the beach.
After years as a married couple, they embarked on their biggest journey together, parenthood. Kathy adored her little blondies, and her and Jim put their full energy into being outstanding parents. There wasn’t a game, recital, conference or field trip missed; she even co-led a girl scout troop. She was sure to pass down the same family values as she adopted growing up. Kathy led a family that ate dinner together every night, shared life stories, and enjoyed each other’s company. With some arm twisting, she even became very fond of the beloved family dog.
Kathy and her family grew into beach life, starting by going a few times a summer, into becoming weekenders. There was no greater joy for her than being on the beach (especially Fenwick Island State Park), watching her husband surf fish and her children and dog play in the waves. As she got deeper into the beach community, she loved making breakfasts on the beach during fishing tournament mornings, and indulging in girls days with the ladies while away for tournament trips in the Outer Banks.
Kathy was also abundantly full of love, particularly for children. She was always the first one to hold a baby, have all the fixin’s for smores around a campfire or make fun events during her annual friend’s Christmas party. Additionally, Kathy was so enthusiastic and full of warmth, serving as everyone’s unpaid therapist with a smile. She got joy from making others happy, whether it was custom order breakfasts for everyone who slept over, or having a stash of nerf guns for when kiddos came to visit.
Kathy also learned to appreciate wildlife as she matured. From horses on the beach, to her turtle log, to admiring the plethora of birds like eagles, herrings, osprey, and more on the pond behind the house, it tickled her. She was the first one to scream as deer were present in a field on drives home from a sun-soaked day on the beach. Flowers also brought her joy, especially sunflowers growing tall in the back yard.
While she’s no longer physically on earth, her light and love still radiate through everyone she knew.
In addition to her parents, Kathy was preceded in death by her brother, Tony Olenderski; her sister, Linda Iocono; and her beloved dogs, Saber and Stella. She is survived by her loving husband, Jim; daughter, Ashley; son, Jimmy; and puppy, Zuzu.
A visitation for family and friends will be held from 10 am until 12 pm on Monday, March 11, 2024, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 121 West Park Place, Newark, DE. A Mass of Christian burial will begin at 1 pm, following the visitation, at St. John the Baptist, East Main & North Chapel Streets, Newark, DE. Interment will follow in All Saints Cemetery, 6001 Kirkwood Highway, Wilmington, DE.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Kathy’s memory to Helen F. Graham Cancer Center, Christiana Care Office of Philanthropy, 4000 Nexus Drive, Suite W3-300, Wilmington, DE 19803 or online by clicking here.
Dan Wolinski
Kathy,
You are a spirit full of love, hope and abundant optimism! You will be missed dearly here on earth, but we know that you are safe in the arms of your family in heaven. We love you and know that we will see you again.
The Wolinskis of NJ
Tom Wood
Kathy was like a treasure chest of warmth, friendship, wisdom and kindness 💖
Tammy Mozingo
So sorry you the lose of this wonderful soul. Condolences and prayers for the family. The beach gang won’t be the same without her. She will be missed and always remembered by all the life’s she has touched.
LouAnn
Ash and family~
Sending my heartfelt condolences.
Love ~
LouAnn
By Barbara S
More than a friend, more than a sister. She really is a ray of sunshine.
Kevin Fenimore
Kathy was a wonderful person and the memories shared in her write up were spot on. She was always cheerful, friendly and kind. I can still hear her voice and see her smiling.
She was dearly loved and will be sorely missed.
KJF
Jennifer Fisher
I had the privilege of being Kathy’s teammate years ago, she was very dedicated to her work but was fun! She had a wonderful sense and a great smile!
My heart goes out to the loved ones she leaves here on earth, may they draw on precious memories of their times together with Kathy to bring them comfort.
Keeping Kathy’s family and friends in prayer, may the Good Lord give them strength and understanding during this difficult time of grief and sorrow.
Andrea Arcidiacono
Wolinski and Olenderski families, i am so very sorry for ur loss. I have so many fond memories w Kathy from 1988 on. She will be dearly missed🌻🌻🌻
Stephanie Wolinski
Aunt Kathy, I will always remember the beach trips with you guys, sleeping over, holidays and playing in the hot tub. You never missed any of my birthdays or events. You were always there for me as an unpaid therapist for sure!
I love you and I’m going to miss you in every way.
I look forward to seeing you again one day.
Lucie Limongelli
My condolences to the Wolinski Family. I am so sorry for your loss. Although I did not know Kathy Wolinski personally, I had the pleasure of meeting her daughter Ashley, who is a lovely young woman. Ashley your mom I am sure is smiling down on you. Forever you will have your own personal Angel. Love ya Momma Luce.
Barb Knorr
Kathy’s eulogy was so wonderful! I worked with Kathy at Bank of America & I can assure you she was “so enthusiastic and full of warmth, serving as everyone’s unpaid therapist with a smile.” She will surely be missed. Condolences and prayers for the family.
Lydia A Schmierer
May your years of wonderful memories hold you close and warm your heart during this difficult time.
Joy Mullin
Jimmy and family,
Please know how sad and shocked we are to hear of Kathy’s passing –
Kathy was the sweetest lady around, we had many great times at Gullsway.
Thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time
RIP Kathy, we will miss you always,
Joy and Bo
Jim &Joyce Mozingo
Condolences and prayers. We will miss seeing you on the beach,we loved our crazy fun times. You will truly be missed. Kathy, until we meet again..
Jeff M
Ash and family ~
Sending love, strength, and guidance as you navigate life through this loss. My heart and prayers go out to you.
Robin Bishop-Lum
So sorry for your loss. May your memories help comfort you during this time.
Rossie Ashlock
Sorry for the loss to the family I work at Bank of America and have known Kathy for several years.
Victoria Meyer
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Kathy was an amazing woman. Wife, mother, and friend.
Donna Henry
A Beautiful Tribute for such a truly Beautiful person.
Deepest heartfelt condolences and prayers of comfort and understanding to the family.
Brian Mccafferyy
So sorry for your family’s loss heaven has a new angel to watch over your family.
Magaly Zavala V.
Sending healing prayers and comfort during this tough time.
I am honored to have been able to meet this wonderful, remarkable, and beautiful soul.
Scott and Mindy Lucas
Dearest Jimmy, Ashley, Jimmy, and all the rest of the people
Kathy considered family (there were so many ♥️) … we are so terribly saddened and sorry to hear about Kathy. She was one of a kind, with the biggest heart and always managed to light up the beach – even on days that were already beautiful and bright. This amazing video lets us all believe you have endless beautiful memories to last a lifetime, but I hope you feel the warmth and strength of Gods loving arms, and know your beloved wife and mother is safely Home with those who went ahead. RIP Beautiful Kathy ♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼
Karen Matteson
Sending prayers and strength to all of family and friends during this difficult time. Kathy was a wonderful person I remember her well from our MBNA days.
Jim and Katy Toller
Jim, Ashley and Jimmy,
We are so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Kathy was such a beautiful, loving and truly joyful person. Everyone who knew her was lucky to have known such a sweet person.
Jim, you and Kathy’s marriage and love for each other was an inspiration to other couples.
Our hearts are with all of you. Rest in peace Kathy.
We sent to your our sincere condolences,
Jim and Katy Toller
Evelyn H
So very sorry to hear about Kathy. I have known Kathy since Middle School and through High School; and a few years later we reconnected at “The Bank”, formerly known as MBNA and now BOA. Even as a teenager, she always greeted you with a comforting smile and a warm welcome hug. Kathy is gone way too early and will be truly missed. I can only imagine how your hearts are broken and your life is turned inside out, but I pray your memories help comfort you during this difficult time.
Claire & Bill Wolinski
Dearest Kathy,
You led your life with joy, kindness and grace and we all felt the love you had for each one of us, because you loved with your whole heart. To say you will be missed is a huge understatement. However, it is a comfort to know that you are safe in heaven with all of those who have gone before and we will be with you again one day. Until then, we will hold you in our hearts forever. Love you sweet kiddo
Suzy DuBois
Beautiful Tribute for Kathy! I loved working with her she was the best manager coworker & Friend
My heart breaks for Jim Ashley & Jimmy all Family & Friends
She will surely be missed keep her memory going & never forgotten
This is very sad she was so kind and
caring! Taken too soon
Prayers hugs & love to her family & friends
connie post
My heart goes out to Kathy’s family and to all of her friends. Kathy always had a ready smile, looked for the best in everyone, and I am grateful with how she welcomed me to the beach / fishing group. She will be sorely missed and my heart is broken to know she is gone.
Keith Stacy
My condolences to the Wolinski family. My prayers are with you.
Christopher Vann
A wonderful smile and always a kind word was what Kathy gave to all. We all were blessed to have shared time with her. Condolences to the family. God bless you all. Cv
Rosemary Sobkiw
I am so sad for the Wolinski family. My prayers and condolences to you all. Kathy and I worked together at MBNA, and she was the real deal genuine person that I was so lucky to know.
Steve & Kathy Politakis
We are so sorry for your loss & hope all the memories you hold in your hearts will bring you some comfort.
Steve & Kathy
The Mahtani’s
To The Wolinski’s and the Olenderski’s
With heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Even though we all know the inevitable life journey, it is never an easy one for those of us who are left behind. May your memories of times spent with Kathy comfort you and may your joy of having been a part of her life last forever.
May Her Soul Rest In Peace! 🙏🙏
Shirl and Steven
Kathy,
You were a ray of sunshine and was always there for anyone who needed anything. I know that you are safe in the arms of your loved ones in Heaven. We are going to miss you so much. But you will live in our hearts forever.
Bonnie
Kathy was an extra ray of sunshine at the pool and had such a bright light about her that she made me smile as soon as she walked through the doors. Heaven has a beautiful new glow!
Jeannine Marron Twardus
Jim and Family,
I just found out that Kathy passed away. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Kathy from the times we’d get together at Andy’s home for different events and holidays and from Andy’s and Andrea’s wedding and baby showers. She was always such a pleasant person and always had a smile on her face. Please accept my condolences and God bless you and your family.
Love and prayers,
Jeannine (Walt’s ex-wife), Michael (son) and Shaina (daughter) Twardus