Thomas Edward “Tom” White, Jr. - Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory

Thomas Edward “Tom” White, Jr.

June 18, 1979 - September 11, 2020

Thomas Edward “Tom” White, Jr., age 41, of New Castle, DE, passed away on Friday, September 11, 2020.

Born in Wilmington, DE on June 18, 1979, he was the son of Thomas Edward White, Sr. and the late Debbie A. Cartwright. Tom was a graduate of William Penn High School. His Uncle John and Aunt Faith raised him along with his Mom-mom, they always went out of their way to help him with anything he needed. Tom loved his job as an Installer for CMI Solar & Electric. In his spare time, he enjoyed watching the Green Bay Packers, attending car shows, taking trips to the beach and roller skating. He could often be found tending to his yard, fixing things around the house or wood working. Tom was a pipefitter by trade but a jack of all. Most of all, he loved spending time with his family and friends. His wife and kids were his life and he will be dearly missed by all.

In addition to his mother, Tom was preceded in death by his paternal grandfather, Charles T. White, Sr.; maternal grandfather, Butch Cartwright; uncles, Walter White and Patrick White; and his pet iguana, Zeus. Tom is survived by his wife, Brandy C. Redwood White; children, Alyssa White, Xavier McClements and Oriana McClements; paternal grandmother, Rita F. White; maternal grandmother, Diane Dunkelberger; siblings, Frank Dunn III, Angela White, Charles “Chaz” White and Michael White (Joey); aunts, Veronica White Hanby, Faith White Allen and Sandy Cartwright; uncles, Charles White, Jr., William “Billy” White and Christopher White (Chris); and mother-and-father-in-law, Cliff and Kim Redwood.

A visitation for family and friends will be held from 12 noon until 1 pm on Monday, September 28, 2020, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 1000 North DuPont Parkway, New Castle, DE, where a memorial service will begin at 1 pm. Face masks will be required for all in attendance. Interment will be held privately.


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11 Condolences for Thomas Edward “Tom” White, Jr.

  • Gods Speed! Ill see you as soon as im called home too!!

  • So sorry for your loss.
    Your family well be in my prayers.. Hugs and strength

  • So sorry the Tommy’s life has come to an end. Young life snuffed out is sad. God 🙏 hold him and hold his family and loved one’s under your wing.

  • With a sad heart I say until we meet again Tom. Hug my brothers and help them to watch over us, and your beloved Brandy🙏🏼RIP you will be missed💔

  • I wish so much that we had got to spend time with one another. You are my brother!!!

  • Tom was a nice young man who would always lend a hand when you needed it. Sad to hear the news about him much to young. Our condolences to the family. May the lord watch over you all during this tough time.

  • Tom you left us way to soon but I know God calls his own home on his time table not ours. May all who call you family and friend be comforted by the Holy Spirit.

  • Tommy i will always cherish our memories. Of us roller skating me coming up to mommom whites house to play u coming to my nanny mrs ruh house n will never forget how scared u was when ur dad fell out of georges tree when he was cuttin it down. Watch over aunt faith she gonna need u we luv u n miss u xxoo fly high baby boy

  • My dear friend. Never thought I’d see the day I was writing under your obit. We strayed apart after some years but that’s what friends do, we grow and we replant. What I can’t remove is that you were a Friend to me. I love you my friend and I will miss you. We had our rocky time but you had the heart of a giant man. I’ll never forget that, or you. Until we meet again at the crossroads my friend……🙏🏾

  • Thoughts and prayers to the family. Tom was a good man. He was a hard worker and got the job done. He was a good neighbor that will always be remembered.. Wish we new what time Tom”s viewing was, we would of been there.

  • I still can’t come to terms. In the brief time we knew each other, you instantly became like my brother. I’m still speechless. My brother, I truly hope there’s something afterwards so I can see you then.
    I’m sorry for your loss Brandy. Tom spoke of you the entire time as well as Alyssa. All he ever wanted was to get home to you guys and marry you. You gave him what no other woman could. You and Alyssa were his motivators to put forth an honest effort to get his act together. He loved you two more than anything else in this world.
    My condolences.