John Alexander
John Alexander, 71, beloved husband, father, poppop, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away peacefully on September 16, 2025, at 1:42 a.m., with his devoted wife of 35 years, Charlotte Alexander, by his side.
John built a life rooted in family, laughter, and hard work. He spent his career as a skilled HVAC technician, known for always having the right tool and the knowledge to fix just about anything. He never hesitated to help others, whether family, friends, or neighbors in need.
He was the proud father of four daughters: Erika Alexander (Jared), Carolyn Johnson (Tom), Maureen Alexander (Chad), and Katelyn Langell (Brandon). He was blessed with six beautiful grandchildren, Stella, Max, Joshua, Declan, Tommy and Alexandria, who all brought him endless pride and joy, as well as his “grand-pets”. John never missed an opportunity to share a sweet (chocolate) snack, play McDonald’s, hang up a colored picture, or show the kids how to balance a ball on his leaf blower. He is also survived by his loving sister, Nancy Keegan.
John loved the simple pleasures in life: a cold Busch beer, a Clint Eastwood film, cheering on his beloved Eagles (go Birds!) and Phillies, and swapping jokes that always earned a smile (even if it was the worst joke you ever heard). He enjoyed “Friends” and “Breaking Bad”, chocolate cake, pork roll, and the companionship of his cat, Snickers. Stubborn at times but always quick with a laugh, he had a high tolerance for pain and faced his lung cancer diagnosis with remarkable strength and resilience.
Those who knew John will remember his humor, loyalty, the love for his girls, and the way he filled every gathering with a laugh. His legacy lives on in the family he loved fiercely and in the countless memories shared over family gatherings, sports, beers, meals, and laughter.
A visitation for family and friends will be held from 10:30 am until 12 noon on Friday, September 26, 2025, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 121 West Park Place, Newark, DE, where a memorial service will begin at 12 noon. Inurnment will be held privately.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you to buy yourself a beer, and share a memory with John.
Charlotte
I miss you so much
Joan James
My heart and prayers go out to Charlotte and the family. No words are sufficient to comfort in this time of grief, but please know that all positive vibes, thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Danny Colon
My deepest sympathy and condolences to the Alexander Family and their extended families as well. To have known John was the greatest gift anyone could have experienced. When my father passed he basically took me in as his own. I will miss his jokes, his daily texts about the Lawn people, and asking to help bring things in the house. Forever in our hearts pal. Xoxo
Lauren Heckman
No words I say will help in this terrible time but I am so very sorry for your loss, John was always so sweet and welcoming and funny. He always made sure to talk to me at every gathering I was at. His memory will live on with all of you, you’re all in my thoughts and prayers.
Bob & Min Viereck
Rest in Peace John, you were a wonderful friend and neighbor.
Lisa Spevak ( Kelly)
John was like a second father to me .. I grew up with him being known as my Uncle Johnny . He was my father Jim Kelly’s best friend . We had the opportunity as a family to babysit his beautiful daughters when they were just babies . I loved Uncle Johnny with all my heart . He will be forever missed and loved . Now he’s flying high with the Eagles and my parents enjoying himself pain free . You will never be forgotten . I love you .
Lisa Spevak ( Kelly)
Judie Volpe
Charlotte and Family,
John was definitely a character. He always put a smile on my face. He may be gone but never forgotten. Please accept my deepest condolences.
All My Love Judie
Mr Crossan
“The Rose Still Grows” Near a shady wall a rose once grew,Budded and blossomed in God’s free light,Watered and fed by mourning’s dew,Shedding it’s sweetness day and night.As it grew and blossomed fair and tall,Slowly rising to loftier height,It came to a crevice in the wall,through which there shone a beam of light.Onward it went with added strength,With never a thought of fear or pride,It followed the light through the crevice-length And unfolded itself on the other side.Shall claim of death cause us to grieve,And make our courage faint or fall? Ney,let us faith and hope receive..The Rose still Grows beyond the Wall.
Joe O’Neill
My deepest condolences. Prayers and good vibes for healing and peace.
Joanne & Joe Jaggers
We are so sorry to hear about your loved one, John. We went to school at St. Martin of Tours.
We would meet at Summerdale playground, enjoyed alot of laughs with Joh.
Chris Hooker
Char- All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful family. May all the memories you and John have made together be treasured and held close until you meet again 🩵
Mary&Shelly
John was a true friend to us. Every time we get together we laughed for hours. It truly felt like we were kids again. John was the GOAT-
GREATEST OF ALL TIME PARTIER!
We will hold you and your beautiful family in our hearts forever.
Kevin McGovern
John’s life was one of love and selfless service to everyone. He lived and shared freely what the French call “The Joy of Life” and was truly Forever Young as so aptly described in Bob Dylan’s song of the same name. I will always remember him, especially when I hear Joan Baez’s beautiful rendition.
James Heckman
I always enjoyed John. He was a good man. I will miss him. My sympathy for his Family. He will be missed