Stephen S. O’Leary
March 11, 1946 - May 10, 2026
Stephen S. O’Leary, age 80, of Wilmington, DE, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, May 10, 2026.
Born in Independence, MO on March 11, 1946, he was the son of the late Margaret L. (Muza) O’Leary and Robert J. O’Leary, Sr. Stephen went on to build a lifelong career in the liquor industry -19 years working in retail management at various liquor stores throughout New Castle County and 21 years at Standard Distributing Co. as a customer relations specialist, retiring in 2011. In retirement he enjoyed spending time with family and friends. He deeply cared for his loved ones and treasured the memories he made through the years.
In addition to his parents, Stephen was preceded in death by his daughter, Traci Lynn; former wives, Doris M. (Courtney) O’Leary and Claire M. (McCord) O’Leary; and brother, Robert J. O’Leary Jr. He is survived by his life partner of 34 years, Ronald W. Wentz; sisters, Patricia Simmerman (Rod) and Kimberly Constantini; stepson, Joseph McCord (Peggy); grandchildren, Allison and Mark; and many nieces and nephews.
A graveside service will begin at 12 pm on Tuesday, May 26, 2026, in All Saints Cemetery, 6001 Kirkwood Highway, Wilmington, DE.
His family appreciates the love, support, and prayers extended to them during this difficult time. “Those we love never truly leave us. They live on in the hearts and memories of those who loved them most.”
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Stephen’s daughter, Traci Lynn’s, memory to Blood Cancer United – Donor Services, P.O. Box 98018, Washington DC 20090-8018 or online by clicking here; or to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or online by clicking here.
Deb Olsen
I will miss my cousins upbeat and bright personality, he always had sunshine in his heart and his family will greatly miss him. I will keep all of my family in my prayers for strength to get through this tragedy and loss and hopefully in time healing.
Lura Taub
Stephen was a beloved customer and friend of ours at MidCoast/FCCB and we always enjoyed his weekly visits and movie reviews. We are going to miss him terribly.
Susan Harrell Whaley
Pat and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your precious brother, Stephen. I am keeping you and your family and Stephen’s family in my prayers during this difficult time. Also, sending my love and hugs. God bless you all.
Susan Harrell Whaley
Christiana Class of 1971
Sebastian, Florida
Debbie DiPasquantonio
Always a warm greeting, a kind word or a contagious smile! Stephen you were a wonderful person. It was always a pleasure to talk with you. I know that your family will miss you!
Angela Williams
My husband (David) and I will truly miss our monthly dinners. I felt as though I had known you forever. You always had a warm smile and a friendly word. You will be missed by so many. May your family know peace during this difficult time. Angela and David Williams
Jeannette B Shain and MaryAnn Silletti
Stephen was a good friend and a fun person to be around. My sister, MaryAnn and I had many laughs with Stephen and Ron over the years.
He came up with our nickname – The Spaghetti Sisters – since our last name is Silletti, coming from a large Italian family. We will always remember his wonderful laugh and his joyful presence. May God take him lovingly into His arms. We miss him and love him dearly.
Carol Heyse
I pray your brother is at peace and I pray for comfort for you and your family !
Thinking of you 🙏🏻
Carol 🩵