Donna Marie McConnell - Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory

Donna Marie McConnell

March 16, 1966 - September 22, 2026

Donna Marie McConnell, age 60, of Smyrna, DE, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her loving family on Tuesday, September 22, 2026.

Born in Wilmington, DE on March 16, 1966, she was a daughter of the late Roy Lee and Juanita J. (Barker) Roop, Sr. Donna graduated from Mt. Pleasant high school in 1984. She worked as a bookkeeper for more than 20 years, then later was a self-employed business owner for over a decade.

Donna was a devoted Philadelphia Eagles fan who loved cheering on her team. Her greatest joy was being there for her grandsons, never missing a game, activity, or special moment in their lives. Donna loved spending time at the camper, making memories with those she loved. She especially cherished her fur babies, who held a special place in her heart. Above all, Donna treasured her family and the time they spent together.

Donna is survived by her daughter, Nikki McConnell; grandsons, Mason Kelly and Noah Kelly; siblings, Becky Harrison, Trish Geary, and R. Lee Roop, Jr. (Tammy); nieces, Melissa, Caitlin, and Andrea; nephews, James and Lee, Jr.; and great nephews, Nathan and Kayson.

A visitation for family and friends will be held from 1 p.m. until 2 p.m. on Sunday, October 18, 2026, at Mulligans Restaurant, 631 Bayview Road, Middletown, DE, where a celebration of life will begin at 2 p.m. Inurnment will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Donna’s memory to the Brandywine Valley SPCA, 290 Churchmans Road, New Castle, DE 19720 or online by clicking here.

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  • So sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences to you and your family. 🙏🏻

  • Holding all the family close in my heart!☹️ Chuck & I send our deepest condolences.

  • Nikki, Mason, and Noah,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom and Mommom was a wonderful woman. She was always there to cheer you on—and to keep Nikki in line when needed. 😆
    No one could ever question how much Donna loved her family. She never missed a game and was there for most practices, too. She was someone we could always count on. All the daycare kids knew her as Mommom, and she gave a hug to anyone who asked. Sometimes, that meant hugging every single one of them.
    Donna and I didn’t agree on the best football team, and we loved teasing each other about it. But we always agreed on one thing: Nikki, Mason, and Noah were number one in her life.
    She will be missed so much. I’m grateful that we all got to know and love her. ❤️ Only for you Donna fly …… fly ❤️

  • So sorry for your loss. Gone entirely too young. Go Birds🦅

  • Our deepest condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. You are in our prayers 🙏 prayers for peace and strength as you navigate the loss of your loved one. The Lewis Family

  • Brian and I send our condolences to you and your family during this very difficult time. Prayers for strength and comfort .

  • Yo Donna was my greeting for her ♥️. Her response was yo Kay. Donna and I worked together for many years. We were a great team and great friends. I’ve missed her over the years with living in Florida. Rest in peace, my friend I will always think of you. God bless you, Nicky.

  • So many good teen memories, and some I won’t post. Partner in crime all the time!
    Very sorry Nikki, Mason and Noah – Donna loved you all very much! Cherish the memories!
    She will watch over you and be with you always!

    “candy bar, candy bar, candy bar” “Soda” “cigarettes” (Donna gets this)

  • So sorry for your loss! My condolences to your family.

  • Tony and Nicky, so very sorry about Donna. She was a sweet gal. You and your family are in our prayers .