James Taylor “Jim” Gray
October 2, 1944 - October 29, 2025
James Taylor “Jim” Gray, age 81, of Newark, DE, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loving family on Wednesday, October 29, 2025.
Born in Elkton, MD on October 2, 1944, he was a son of the late Herman and Dorothy (Lewis) Gray. Jim was a graduate from North East High School in Maryland. He then enlisted in the Army National Guard. Jim married his high school sweetheart the following year, Betty Jean Isaacs. He devoted many years as a superintendent at Falcon Steel. After retirement, Jim opened Jim’s Repair Service.
In his spare time, Jim enjoyed listening to music, working on his ‘64 Corvette and taking care of his yard. He also enjoyed helping his neighbors with their mower repairs. He could often be found hanging in shop with his brother, neighbors, and friends. But he most loved spending time with his family and his dog, Gibbs.
In addition to his parents, Jim was preceded in death by his wife, Betty Jean (Isaacs) Gray. He is survived by his daughters, Lori Gray (David Trefsger) and Jennifer Carl (Jeremy); siblings, Kathy Hickman (Clyde), Mary Jean Simpers, Lisa Horney, and Bill Gray; and grandchildren, Will Carl and Cameron Carl.
A visitation for family and friends will be held from 2 pm until 3:30 pm on Tuesday, November 4, 2025, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 121 West Park Place, Newark, DE, where a memorial service will begin at 3:30 pm. Inurnment will be held privately.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Jim’s memory to the Blood Cancer United, formerly known as the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, P.O. Box 22324, New York, NY 10087 or online by clicking here.
Lynn Carbone
Deepest condolences to Lori, Jen and family. The neighborhood just won’t be the same without his presence.
Respectfully,
Jaaon and Lynn (Kelter) Carbone
Walter Bouchelle
Jim was a great person and a great friend, he will be missed by his classmates NEHS class of 1963.
Carol Miller
Condolences to Lori,Jen and family. Jim was one nice guy and we really enjoyed seeing him and Gibbs on Thursday mornings he will be missed at our classmates breakfast. Class of 1963
Sandy Miller
The family of Jim Gray I express my deepest condolences for the loss of your dad. I knew Betty years go as her nurse. I became a friend also in all the years of her care. Jim was the best care giver to his wife I have ever known. I still have Lillies of the Valley growing that Betty gave me 15 years ago. My prayers go out to all the family for your comfort.
Kirk Gonzales
My condolences go out to Jim’s family, I will miss the days of hanging out in his shop, Jim could fix just about anything. Rest in peace my friend.
Chip Hendrickson
My condolences to the family, sorry for your loss.
R I P Jimmy 🙏
Ed Hendrickson
My thoughts and prayers are with your family
Gary Lake
Jim, very proud to be your friend. Will miss you on Thursday morning breakfasts. Buddy. you are home with Betty.
Curt Garber
To Lori, Jenny and the entire family, I’m sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of both your parents.
My condolences,
Curt Garber
J.R. Johnson
Jim was a true Renaissance man. He overcame many obstacles in life like a warrior. Our condolences to the family. Marcia and J.R.
Joe Beitler
I am sorry to here that . I was lucky I was able to talk to him the other day . I now live down here full time . I you ever need help I will be glad to help you . We are still married . Me E-Address is on here . My phone number is 4846786747 . Joe
Richard Leisses
Lori & family, so sorry for your loss.
We just returned from PA after a week away! Please let us know if we can help.
Dick & Jane