Lois H. Shindler (Walker, Barbour)
Lois H. Shindler (Walker, Barbour), age 91, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 16, 2025, surrounded by her loving family at their residence in Townsend, DE. A devoted mother, great-grandmother, and cherished friend born in Harrisburg, PA.; Lois leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and dedication to those she held dear.
She had a passion for travel, but her greatest joy came from sharing those adventures with her family. A 1952 graduate of John Harris High School, she retired from the PA Department of Environmental Protection and was a longtime member of Calvary United Methodist Church of Lower Paxton Township.
Lois is lovingly remembered by her daughters, Kathleen Link, Stacey Walker, and Diane Ains (Greg); granddaughter, Lauren Minter (James); great-grandchildren, Sara Ford, Greyson Minter, Joshua and Valerie Link; niece and nephew, Pamela and Scott Ellenberger (Carrie); and great-niece, Maura.
Her wishes were for family and friends to gather for a Celebration of Life to be held Saturday, July 12th from 2 PM until 6 PM at The Edge 18, 1 East Whittington Way, Middletown, DE 19709. A burial ceremony will be held later for the immediate family in Pennsylvania.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Lois’s memory to the Humane Society of Harrisburg, 7790 Grayson Road, Harrisburg, PA 17111 or online by clicking here; or Bethesda Mission, P.O. Box 3041, Harrisburg, PA 17105 or online by clicking here.
Her unwavering love, witty humor, wisdom, and kindness will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
Sharon, Dan Pugh
In loving memory of our dear friend Lois Lo, Lo, who brought so much joy and light into our lives, and whose absence will be felt profoundly. As we gather to celebrate your remarkable spirit, we reflect on the countless memories we shared, moments filled with laughter, support, and unwavering friendship. Your unconditional love and genuine kindness set you apart, and we consider ourselves truly blessed to have had you as not only a friend but also a confidant who offered wisdom and encouragement whenever we needed it most.
Throughout our journey, we have encountered many people, yet few have the extraordinary ability to warm our hearts and touch our souls as you did. The love of friendship is a rare gem, and we are proud to say that God graced us with the gift of your presence the day you entered our lives. Your spirit will forever resonate within us, a lasting reminder of the beautiful bond we shared.
As we navigate the days without you, we hold tightly to the love and laughter you instilled in our hearts. You will remain an indelible part of our stories, inspiring us to cherish those we love and to live fully, just as you did. Your memory will continue to guide us, offering comfort and solace in the days to come.
With affection and gratitude, we honor you, our beautiful friend. You shall forever reside in our hearts, never to be forgotten. My family and I are eternally grateful for your presence in our lives.
With love always,
Sharon, Dan, Mike, Tommy, Sammy, and Brittany Pugh
Forever in our hearts. XOXOXO.
Valerie Gooding
Words cannot describe how much we’ll miss Lois. Lois will always be remembered as a warm, generous and thoughtful lady with a fun loving flair for life. She always gave everyone her delicious cookies at Christmas. She never missed anyone as large as our family was and continued to grow. There are too many good times to count. One of my favorites was when we were in New Orleans on Bourbon St. for Candace & Preston’s wedding. Another time…. we were in Nashville TN and had a blast. Lois came to every show with Mom & always had nice words to say about it & how beautiful Sara danced on stage. The good times we encountered were just delightful. I will miss her, but know she’s up there with Mom & Dad (George &Theresa) having a good old time. I pray for peace and contentment that can only come from God. I will pray the “Consolation of Eternal Life” for all of you & our family who will truly miss her. Love and prayers Diane, Greg, Stacy, Cathy, Lauren, James, Sara & Greyson. I love you all!
Love,
Valerie
Chrissy Kolar
Lois was like another grandmother to my sister and I. She was caring with a quick wit. Celebrated our birthdays and joined in on all family events when she could.
She blessed us with for years by allowing us access to her vacation home in OCMD where many memories were made.
Lois will be deeply missed. I will look forward to her Christmas cookies in heaven. We love you.
Chrissy Kolar
Gary Wragg
Although I only met Lois a few times I along with others benefited from her generosity, allowing us to stay at her OC condominium which provided many memories to look back on with great fondness.
She was always cheerful and friendly and will no doubt be missed by her family and close friends.
My sincerest condolences to friends Diane, Greg and Stacey and to all members of her family and friends.
Vicki Shoffner
I have so many fond memories, during my younger years, whereby Aunt Lois provided my childcare, on numerous occasions, while my parents worked.
I also have countless memories of visiting , during the summer, being invited to many pool parties, and other family gatherings for birthdays and holidays.
Her graciousness, kindness, caring and support, strong will and sense of humor will truly be missed.
Minter Family-Texss
MiMi, it was a pleasure to have known you the past years…since James and Lauren married. You were a delight to talk to. You loved hearing everyone share their stories as we loved hearing yours. You did have a smile on your face each time we visited with you.
Our love ~ Candie, Troy, Amanda and Bobby.
Gary Cooke
Dear Diane and Greg,,
Word’s seem so feeble in moments like these, life is so precious and death is a thief. We cannot comprehend the depths of your loss , we offer our sincerest condolences to you, your family, and Lois’ dear friends. It was a pleasure getting to know Lois better over the last several years, she always offered me a kind welcome and then hit me with her quit wit. I thoroughly enjoyed the banter with her, especially her infectious laugh during my many visits to see you guys.
Sincerely,
Gary and Carol Cooke