Pamela J. “Pam” (Purdy) Rudinoff - Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes & Crematory

Pamela J. “Pam” (Purdy) Rudinoff

March 6, 1966 - August 31, 2023

Pamela J. “Pam” (Purdy) Rudinoff, age 57, of Wilmington, DE, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her loving family on Thursday, August 31, 2023.

Born in Wilmington, DE on March 6, 1966, she was the daughter of the late James Purdy, Sr. and Vera (Steele) Aaron. Pam was a graduate of William Penn High School. She made her career as an executive assistant at DOE Legal in Wilmington for over 25 years.

A friend to the community, Pam loved to give back by volunteering for Meals on Wheels delivery, among other charitable groups. In her spare time, she enjoyed visiting the beach, sun bathing, and had an appreciation for sunflowers. Above all, Pam’s family was her world and she loved being a GiGi to her precious grandchildren. She spent a lot of time with her family, especially her kids and grandkids, and took every opportunity to host family parties. Pam never missed games, school events, or clubs for her children and grandchildren, a memory they will forever cherish.

In addition to her parents, Pam was preceded in death by her grandmother, Effie Parag. She is survived by her beloved husband, Ryan D. Rudinoff; children, Ashley Inverso (Bobby), Tommy Cassidy (Alex), and Ryan Cassidy; bonus daughter, Taylor Huppman (Matt); and grandchildren, Joey, Jonathan, Aislynn, and Adalynn.

A visitation for family and friends will be held from 10 am until 12 pm on Saturday, September 23, 2023, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 1000 North DuPont Parkway, New Castle, DE, where a memorial service will begin at 12 pm. Interment will be held privately.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Pam’s memory to Slay Sarcoma Research Initiative, c/o Sarah Trainer, 609 Lauren Circle, Yardley, PA 19067 or online by clicking here.


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12 Condolences for Pamela J. “Pam” (Purdy) Rudinoff

  • I was blessed with an amazing sister who touch many people throughout her life. I miss you so very much love you

  • We were shocked to hear of the passing of this bright, beautiful, vibrant woman. We know she left a lasting mark on the hearts of all who knew her. Her family and friends have our deepest sympathy. Sending our love and prayers to you all.
    Karen and Sean Davenport

  • I will miss my beautiful daughter-in-law terribly. She was a loving, vibrant living soul in this world. Love you forever, Pam. You brought so much joy to everyone.

  • So sorry for your loss. She was an amazing person. Sending prayers 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. Love to family

  • I am deeply saddened by the passing of our dearly beloved friend Pammy! PAMMY was and will always be remembered as a kind hearted, pleasant,beautiful, very down to earth human being….who was loved and will be sorely missed by those who knew her. I have had the pleasure of knowing Pammy since junior high school and hung out with her and her family in New Castle. I could go on about her. Remembering her will be easy….everytime I see a sunflower 🌻 it will always remind me of her. My last memory with you is when I ran into you at the nail salon. Rest in sunflower 🌻 heaven beautiful. Jackie xxx (((hugs)))

  • I knew Pam from coaching cheerleading at Holy Rosary. A beautiful woman inside and out. My condolences to her family.

  • Sending my condolences to the family and friends of Pam. She will definitely be missed. She had a kind spirit. Hide under God’s wing of protection in this time of need 🙏💌

  • I miss our walks and talks. Work will never be the same without seeing your smiling face. God bless you and your family. 💔

  • My heart is broken for the loss we all feel. But especially for her beloved children Ashley, Tommy and Ryan. And her cherished grandchildren who we texted about all the time!
    And the love of her life Randy,her husband forever. Shall they all meet again in heaven!

  • I’m so sorry to hear the news of your loss. Pam was always so positive and fun to be around. She talked about her love for her family, especially her grandchildren. Sending love to all.

  • I’m so very sorry for your loss. Pam was a very special person

  • My condolences on the passing of Pam. She was a wonderful person! I was very fortunate to have worked with Pam at doeLEGAL. She was the smile of the company who was always upbeat, positive, and brought a refreshing tenacity in her approach to day-to-day work. She was a critical person to making doe as successful as it was. She is greatly missed!