Pasquale “Pat” Pellegrini
September 14, 1955 - June 26, 2025
On June 26, 2025 Pasquale “Pat” Pellegrini, after a lengthy illness, passed away at his home in Frankford, Delaware.
Born in Baltimore, Maryland on September 14, 1955, Pat was one of five children born to the late Bobbie Jean (Smith) Pellegrini, and Anthony Frank Pellegrini of Gardenville. At the time of his passing he was retired, after a career in marketing for Central Acceptance Co. Inc., for twenty-five years, as well as inspection work for several companies.
Pat loved playing pool, and was on several teams playing 9-Ball, and 8-Ball. He even went so far as to compete in Las Vegas. Pat’s true passion was working in the fellowship of Narcotics Anonymous. He loved spreading the message of recovery, hope, and faith. Pat especially found purpose in introducing the program to newcomers. He took meetings into jails, recovery centers, and local meetings. Pat took such pride in being able to recently celebrate 30 years of clean time.
In addition to his parents, Pat was preceded in death by his siblings, James and Anthony Pellegrini. He is survived by his wife, Judy (Davis) Pellegrini; sons, Christopher Pellegrini, Anthony Bova, and Charles “JR” Hensley; granddaughters, Rowan Brower and Quinn Pellegrini; siblings, Nicholas and Ninetta Pellegrini; and many close friends, colleagues, and acquaintances.
A visitation for family and friends will be held from 1 pm until 3 pm on Friday, August 1, 2025, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 121 West Park Place, Newark, DE, where a celebration of life will begin at 3 pm. Inurnment will be held privately.
In lieu of flowers, donations would be greatly appreciated in Pat’s memory to Life Changing Pathways, 2 West Market Street, Floor 2, York, PA 17401 or online by clicking here, so the work of recovery can continue in Pat’s memory.
Michael Sciabarrasi
I’ve known Pat Pellegrini for many years. When we were younger, we both played softball for the escape lounge and enjoyed every minute of it. Pat was one of the most loving and kind people I have ever met. If you needed help, he would go out of his way to come and help you. I always called him to see how he was doing with his cancer. He dedicated himself into trying to help people with
Addiction. I just want to say I will miss him and may God take him and keep him safe.
Donna
I always remember Pat being such an athletic guy, always playing sports. I saw him a few years back at a reunion, and we talked about things that just made us laugh. So glad I got to see him then. You are with God now. Rest in peace.
Elisa Pellegrini
I wasn’t in touch with Pat for many years but I spoke to him when I worked oncology at John’s Hopkins. He was amazing and fought like a champion. Rest in peace. You deserve it!
Dan Garrison
I remember Pat and Judy getting married in Vegas. Pat you will be missed. Rest easy Pat and put your angel wings around Judy and your family to comfort them.
Margie Z.
Beautiful tribute to a great person.
May you rest in peace Pat🙏🫂💙
Rack them up in Heaven🎱
Sue
What a beautiful video 💔 I worked with Judy and Pat for over 25 years, going from co workers to family!! Pat was a good guy!!! Now be free of all pain 🪽
Elsy Leonso
I’m so sorry for your loss,
I will elevate my prayers for you and your family in this hard moments. hugs
Kristina Loveland
Dear Pat. You are such a kind soul. Your sense of humor made everyone laugh and smile and that is priceless. You are someone that will never be forgotten. You made Judy so happy. And that made me love you more. Rest easy kind Sir. So glad I had the opportunity to have you a part of my life. 🥹😔❤️
Mary Wyatt
I unfortunately only met Pat one time, but that was all that was needed to see what an amazing person he was! I felt like I knew him a long time. You fought hard Pat, now it’s time to rest ❤️
Jo Anne
Judy, I’m so sorry for your pain and loss. Tony, I wish you didn’t have to deal with this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carolyn Willis
Judy, I am so sorry to hear about the death of your husband. No words can take aware the pain in your heart. Only time will ease the pain with the comfort of your friends and family. With my Deepest Sympathy, Carolyn
You probably don’t remember me, but you same over to ask me who did my porch years ago. Corner of Florida Circle and Florida
Dee Jefferson
So sorry for your loss. Pat was really nice to talk too. I’m sorry I didn’t get to know him better. From your obituary I can tell what a terrific person and husband he was. May he rest peacefully in the Arms of God!!!!
Chuck Connolly
I am so sorry for your loss Judy. Sending you and your family thoughts in prayers.
Missy Tegeler
Judy -Watched the slide show, which was Wonderful! Although I never met Pat, I could tell that you two were a great couple together and had lots of fun!!! So, so sorry for your loss cuz…. Thinking of you at this difficult time sweetie!!🥰💙
Taylor Carroll
I had the pleasure of knowing Pat and his wife for just a few short years. And I am very thankful to have known him. It started off as just a Barista at Starbucks helping a customer, but he quickly became a favorite regular to me and all around a favorite person. He was funny and always so kind when asking how I was and what was new in my life. We bonded over the fact that I was a counselor in the Addiction field and am now going to school and always asked how my classes were going and would give me pieces of advice. I don’t think I’ll ever forget him, or his order. ❤️ ☕
Jane Paca Zimmer
Judy,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Jane
Charles "JR" Hensley
I’m deeply saddened by Pat’s passing. He wasn’t just a great man — he was like a father to me. Being with him during his final days was both heartbreaking and a privilege. Even in those moments, his strength, grace, and quiet wisdom shone through.
Pat had a way of making people feel seen, heard, and supported. He guided me through some hard times in my life, not with loud words but with steady presence and genuine care. His impact on me is something I’ll carry forever.
The world feels different without him in it, but I’m grateful for every conversation, every laugh, and every lesson. I will miss him deeply.
My thoughts and love are with you Judy as well as all others who deeply cared for Pat.
With heartfelt sympathy,
JR