Robert D. “Bob” Fenimore
January 30, 1940 - January 6, 2026
Robert Darlington “Bob” Fenimore, 85, of Middletown, Delaware, formerly of Wilmington, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his wife and children, on Tuesday, January 6, 2026.
Born in Wilmington on January 30, 1940, Bob was the son of the late Harvey C. Fenimore and Anne (Poteet) Fenimore. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, and proudly served his country in the United States Marine Corps.
Bob built a life rooted in service, steady hard work, and family. He was the owner of B&F Towing Co., along with his two brothers, Herbie & Henry, for more than 58 years, dedicating himself to building a respected, family-centered business known across the region. In the community and in life, Bob was the kind of man who quietly showed up—offering help, support, and his time to anyone who needed it.
Bob served as a Corporal in the United States Marine Corps from 1958 to 1962. His service took him to Camp Lejeune, North Carolina, and to Okinawa, Japan, before returning to Camp Lejeune to complete his enlistment. After his military service, he returned home to begin his career and raise his family.
In 1989, Bob married Carol A. (Cicatelli), and together they shared a loving partnership filled with travel, family time, and deep devotion to their grandchildren and great-grandchildren. They could often be found cheering them on at games, events, and activities. In later years, Bob most enjoyed the simple peace of being at home with Carol—opening their home for holidays and special occasions and creating memories that will be treasured for generations.
Bob will be remembered for his love of cars, his gentle and quiet nature, and the sincerity he extended to everyone he met. He preferred to stay out of the spotlight, taking pride in his work and in the continued success of the family business.
In addition to his parents, Bob was preceded in death by his daughter, Roma Jadick; and his siblings, Harvey Fenimore, Frances Fenimore, Audrey Watt, J. Herbert Fenimore, Donald Fenimore, Roger Fenimore, and Henry Fenimore.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Carol A. (Cicatelli) Fenimore; his children, Steven R. Fenimore (Chrissy), David M. Fenimore (Marie), Michele Fenimore Profit (Mike), and Rob Jadick; his siblings, Phyllis Campbell, Ellen Harkness, Evelyn Callahan, and Randall Fenimore; his grandchildren, Christie, Caroline, and Robert; and his great-grandchildren, Kaylinn, Michael, Madelinn, and Gionni.
A visitation for family and friends will be held from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 noon on Wednesday, January 14, 2026, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 275 East Main Street, Middletown, DE, where a funeral service will begin at 12:00 noon. Interment will be held privately at Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Bob’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105, or to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, P.O. Box 91891, Washington, DC 20090-1891.
Zeroka Family
Our condolences and prayers to you and your family at this difficult time.
Harms Richard
I am a good friend of Randy Fennimore, and thru our association together on the Delaware State Police. I met, enjoyed, and respected his entire family. they were good times and he will be missed.
Mary Burnstein
So sorry for your loss.I loved Bobby, he was always so good to me.And so were you, Carol
Michael Saggione
Rest in peace Bob you were one of the nicest guy you could meet along with Henry and the rest of the Fenimore Family every time I would stop at the shop I was greeted with respect and while I was Chief of Minquas Fire Co you and the family would go out of their way to do anything we need done and we sure appreciate it the Family is very kind and caring for everyone may god bless you Bob
Michael & Beth Ruff
Bob the Ruff family will miss you so much, we just found out of the terrible news. You were such a big part of our family. You will be greatly missed. RIP Buddy, until we meet again, you will always be in our hearts.
Earl Heston
Please accept Nancy and I condolences.
SEMPER-FI
RIP
Bob was a true gentleman.
paula romeo
Bob, was a quiet man who showed his love for life to everyone and everything he touched. His children are his legacy, he will be missed. rest in peace Bob.
Maria Gagnon
So very sorry for your loss. Deepest sympathy to the family.
Kevin McDerby
Bobby was a great man who touched many in a kind and caring way. He was a proud American and a very proud Marine. My he rest in peace with his family members and friends who made the journey to Heaven before him. He will be missed,
Karen Kolek
So sorry for your loss. He was a great man and we were all blessed to have known him. Will keep you all in our prayers.
patricia breitenbach
To the entire Fenimore Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you all.
The Breitenbach Family
Pownall Family
Dear Carol & family. So very sorry to hear this news today. Bob was such a wonderful person and a great neighbor. Sending hugs and prayers from Texas . We are so sad for your loss.
Curt Clifton
Dear Carol and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Bob was a fantastic person. He always maintained a quiet and positive attitude. He would help anyone who needed him. Bob and his brothers were always there for the Minquas Fire Company. They were all a true community caring family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lynn Carbone
Deepest sympathies to the family. So sorry to learn of Bob’s passing. May you find peace in your hearts, with happy memories of him. 💙💜
Stanley lemanski
I know him 47years he was my friend and his kids love them all .
Thom Harvey
I am deeply saddened by Bob’s passing. He was a fine man and a credit to the Fenimore name. I’ve known Bob for 50 years and proudly done business with B and F towing for as long. He was a pleasure to know and our I and our community will miss him.
Mike Quig
I have had the pleasure to have known Bobby for 50 + years. Bob was always a quiet and unassuming man. Bob, like his brothers Herbie and Henry did a wonderful job of making
B & F Towing a first rate company. B & F will still be a first class company due to the foundation started by the three Fenimore brothers.
I know Bob will be openly welcomed into Heaven.
RIP Bobby.
Michele Wolfe
Carol & family,
So sorry for your loss. May memories & prayers comfort you at this difficult time.
Shane Mason
I worked for B&F auto parts in the mid 90’s when I was a young man. The entire family was good to me. Mr. Bob was especially good to me. He was an exceptional man of character, secure in his presence, fatherly in his calmness, and extremely genuine. I’ll never forget him. To the Fenimore family, I am sorry.
Jon Vriesen
Very sorry to hear of Bobbys passing. Sending condolences to the whole family.
Frank Gant
My deepest condolences to the Fenimore family.
I worked for Bob and his brothers when they were in Stanton. I enjoyed working with them. Bob and his brothers were a great help to me and my family when I was injured working at the Delaware turnpike toll plaza back in the late 1970’s.
Their help and friendship will never be forgotten.
Mary Cassidy
Carol, Steven,David and Michelle- my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sorry for your loss.