Thomas J. “Tom” Kane, Sr.
July 27, 1950 - May 22, 2026
Thomas J. “Tom” Kane, Sr., age 75, of West Grove, PA, passed away on Friday, May 22, 2026.
Born in Wilmington, DE on July 27, 1950, he was the second youngest of 11 children born to the late James F. and Agnes M. (Lenhoff) Kane, Sr. Tom was a graduate of Salesianum School in 1968. He made his career as the superintendent of the Catholic Cemeteries for 50 years until his retirement. In April of 2023, Tom continued to serve families at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Homes as a funeral assistant. He also shared his expertise with his community as a member of several cemetery committees, including St. Joseph-Middletown.
Tom was a dedicated Philadelphia sports fan. He was thrilled to have attended an Eagles game with his family last year, a longtime goal for him. Tom was proud of his Irish heritage and had a deep appreciation for his culture. Most of all, he always looked forward to spending time with his family.
He is survived by his loving wife of 56 years, Linda (nee Hall); sons, Tom (Susan) and Rich; grandchildren, Ashley, William, Alexander, and Morgan; sisters-in-law, Pam (Grover), Mary Ann, Paula, Patricia, Mary and Joanne; as well as numerous nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Tom was preceded in death by his brothers, Little Jimmy, Bill, Bob, Jack, James, Jr., Joe and Paul; and his sisters, Dolores “Sissy” Bader, Kathleen Krupa and Agnes “Aggie” Workman.
A visitation for family and friends will be held from 9 am until 11 am on Friday, June 12, 2026, at Spicer-Mullikin Funeral Home, 275 East Main Street, Middletown, DE. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at 12 pm, following the visitation, at St. Joseph Parish, 319 East Main Street, Middletown, DE. Interment will follow in All Saints Cemetery, 6001 Kirkwood Highway, Wilmington, DE.
Sherrie Saponaro
Dear Linda and Family,
I am devastated to hear that Tom passed away. He was truly kind, loving and compassionate person who will be truly missed by everyone who had the privilege to know him. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you at this most difficult time, Sherrie Hickman Saponaro
Nicole Powell
Dear Linda, Tom, and Rich,
My deepest condolences on the passing of Tom. May God comfort you in the days to come. I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Barbara Soltow
Tom you had such a great spirit. I loved your laugh and wit and your smile was warm and genuine. I will never forget your surprise when I made you your own “Irish Eyes 👀” parking sign to put out at family parties and the gallons of whiskey sours were famous. Many fond memories to hold dear. Love and hugs to Linda, Rich, Tom, Susan, Ashley, William, Alex and Morgan.
Maryann Murray
Tom was one of the best boss that I ever worked for. Very understanding, patience and fair to everyone. He loved his work at All Saints Cemetery and had worked at every position there in all his years of service to the Diocese. He was a faithful servant to his faith, family and friends. He loved his family and friends and was so proud of his family and extended family. True to his religion. I enjoy the time I worked with him at All Saints. He is gone to early and will surely be missed by many. Linda i am sorry I will not be able to attend his funeral. Rest in Peace Tom. Linda my condolences, thoughts and prayers to you and your family. May the Perpetual Light Shine on Tom.
Debbie Rigler
Linda, Tom and Rich, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Tom. I’ve known Tom since I was a child, growing up on the same street as his family. Tom has always been a kind and caring person with a great sense of humor. I know your hearts are hurting during your loss. I pray that you find comfort in the memories of happier times with Tom.
John Shearer
Linda and Family,
So sorry to read of the passing of your husband and father. Hope you can find peace in this time of sorrow.
God Bless,
John
Mark Christian
He was a amazing gentleman. He loved his career with Catholic Cemeteries and was a devoted son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, and friend. He left a legacy of great importance both professionally and personally.